Everything You Need To Know About Attracting The Right People January 25, 2007
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About The Program
In a world dominated by people, interactions and relationships are inevitable. LOVE ACTUALLY uncovers the understandings and tools needed for you to succeed in all your dealings with people –from casual to business to romantic – to unrevealing the secrets of the sexes.
For only $250, you will learn how to:
1) Attract and be attractive
2) Make relationships work the way you want them to
3) Increase confidence in the way that you relate to people
4) Love what you do and do what you love
5) Network and meet new people
*Register in a pair before 28th May and pay only $220 each*
About The Coach
Eric Feng
ICF Associate Certified Coach
Straits Time Top 25 Alternate Achiever
Under the mentorship of Kelvin Lim, Singapore’s first and only Master Certified Coach, Eric has worked and coached over 200 people, including senior executives, young entrepreneurs and students. He is also one of the youngest coaches to hold an international coach certification in Singapore. Fondly regarded by his clients as “everybody’s best friend”, his commitment is to his clients’ possibilities and he will kick ass when the need arises.
Eric’s love for people also led him to join the Toastmasters Movement. As celebrated Toastmasters in Singapore, he has taken part in and won many national level speech competitions. His recent win was at Macau when he clinched First Runner Up for the Evaluation Contest Finals. In 2005, he also represented Philadelphia to compete in the Division Humorous Contest and was awarded the championship title. His win also got him featured on Straits Time as one of Singapore’s Top 25 Alternate Achievers last year.
Dates
1st June, Friday 7.30pm – 10.30pm
2nd June, Saturday 9.00am – 6.00pm
3rd June, Sunday 9.00am - 6.00pm
For registration and enquiries, please send an email to eric@ericfeng.com
Comments»
\”I discovered more about myself. Love Actually has helped me examine my life up til this point, gave me answers to questions I have been asking and prompting better ones. Realizing my hot buttons and acknowledging them has given me more personal control than I thought I have, such that instead of reacting to circumstances, I now respond to them better, which previously I thought is a habit that is beyond me to nurture. In terms of awareness, I have realized that I have much more within myself to offer, that once cultivated and groomed, will do a whole world of good to my personal growth. The best takeaway was the fact that I can be where I want to be by being who I am and realizing my true self.
Love Actually has been great in helping me form the framework to continue to work on myself, even after the course is over. Yes, there is work that needs to be done, and the hands-on approach of the workshop has jumpstarted this process so that I will follow through.\”
Teh Tian Yan
Student/Entrepreneur
here\’s what i think i gain from Love Actually:
1/ learn how to control my judgemen with awareness that i\’m judging someone
2/ understand myself more: i am a posturing, dominating person, i need attention and need to be the leader in everything, it\’s good but also prevent me from exploring other new ideas and experience because i just focus on what i think, i don\’t care what other people think.
3/ learn how to connect to people by knowing which mask i should use at certain situation and with certain people, giving people a space to speak, being a good listener (feel their feelings, be objective, just listen, do not get sucked in or put myself in their shoes…)
I practised all of these with the extreme guy that i told you, day by day, after talking to him more, asked questions that i think would let him talk about himself more, like his interests, his belief (because mainly, when we meet, i always talk, he listens, i love to dominate the conversation anyway:)). in short, i gave him more space to express himself. then i appreciated and showed interests in what he was talking about although i\’m not really interested in things he talked but i try to accept him, i told myself that: that\’s ok if it\’s not interesting but that\’s Andrew. After that i feel good when he started telling me other stuff that he never told me before such as his time in Malaysia before he came here, his Choir friends… like i said, he would always wait for me to bring up the topic to talk and then follow or just listen to what i had to say but this time, it\’s different. hence, i feel victorious because at last he doesn\’t seem foreign to me anymore, i feel like i have control over my relationship and i have one more friend!
that\’s it. good luck with your Love Actually in April. Take care
Love Actually has changed my life completely. If you think the coaching programs of Tony Robbins, Adam Khoo and Zig Ziglar are the only life-changing ones, think again.
Previously to reading and following Eric’s program, I had read what seemed like every book, listened to all sorts of positive thinking audios, I\’d even attended seminars and watched videos so I knew the power of attraction and how it works. So why and what was I doing wrong? Why wasn\’t I developing better relationships with people yet?
If I supposedly had the answers, and knew the how’s, what was I missing? I believed I had the Mindset, at least some knowledge , I knew the laws of attraction, Yet , Why wasn\’t that enough? Why was I still getting nowhere? And it certainly was not the lack of trying or hard work. Believe me I had tried everything, with little or no success before this.
After finishing this program, I finally had the answers I needed and the exact reasons why I am not getting the success that I deserve. There were many Aha! moments throughout the course.
One such moment is when I connect with my course mate on a very deep and intimate level through an exercise and I was totally amazed by the experience. It proved to me that instant rapport and attraction is possible.
Unlike other coaching programs out there, this program focuses on personal coaching and Eric makes sure everyone gets something out of it. The small class size makes it possible for everyone to be involved and get the maximum out of it. Coaching is based on bringing out the best inside you and the changes are long lasting, unlike courses out there that focus on external motivation and they don’t last. The drills we did during the program also helped to hone our skills.
Eric has really given us the power to make relationships work the way you want them to. Respect should go to my new mentor and guide Eric Feng. His words have power and the communication style is intimate and seems to resonate with the soul.
I decided to test out what I had learnt into my life. I have communication problems with my mother but after applying my newfound knowledge, our relationship is improving day by day
My whole life is changing for the better daily since, And I believe it came about from acknowledging what I learnt from Eric and for that I am eternally grateful.
Don\’t just wish for success with people. Come to this program, follow it and you too can build quality relationships. I would highly recommend this course for anyone who is searching to take charge of their relationships with people. If you have been searching high and low, search no more….
new realizations
1) i realise i havent been listening to other people. i only listen to my inner conversation and i form my answers without listening to the person completely. this is one reason for my failure in conversation with others.
2) i overcome my fear of talking to people of higher authority!
3) i enjoy giving and accepting. people around me feel more appreciated and i am more generous and sincere in my thank-you and love-you.
experiences that wow you:
1) i used to quarrel with my boyfriend frequently when we discuss about work. (Background info: my boyfriend and i work in the same company). However, i got him to join LOVE ACTUALLY with me. Now we dont quarrel anymore. Now we know how to listen to each other, and how to emphatise with each other. The result is immediate, and we smile whenever we talk because we know we are really listening to each other!
acts of courage
1) i talked to my neighbour. he even shared his deep dark secret to me even though we never talk much in the past. he feels relax talking to me now!
results in your life
1) i am more confident of myself. i no longer fear of talking to any person.
2) i understand where my judgements of people come from. and this helps me understand my reactions over certain people i have never met before.
3) i am not afraid of approaching strangers.
4) i can express my love for my loved ones… and the feeling is so amazing. no more \”i love you\” at the end of the conversation without sincerely feeling it.. now, every word is expressed thoughtfully and sincerely.
5) i have so much to learn from my coach, eric feng. he is very inspiring, and he makes the course more fun and meaningful